How do you stop yourself from loving someone who left and doesn’t love you?

This answer is going to be long because LOVE is very complicated and you should understand it completely and also you should know what it’s meant to love someone. So, read till the end and then leave your comment.

Doesn’t matter who you are, everyone fell in love sometimes. You can have this feeling for a week, month, year, or maybe for a lifetime but love is something that everyone experiences.

Even scientists who know that it’s just some chemicals in the mind and a sage who knows that it’s just illusion. But still, people always fell in love with someone. ( And as we know that nothing lasts forever so, we going to lose everything that we love and it can hurt )

There are so many reasons why one fell in love. ( And you can make people fall in love with you, you just have to play with their mind ) The love that most people talk about is just attraction and physical love.

An illusion created by the mind that most people are not aware of, and that love is needed. ( To save our species from getting extinct )

Love is the way to bring two people together ( And to show your love to someone what you can do? ) You may touch each other, give hugs, have cuddles, but it all end with having SEX. ( Yes, you can have sex with someone you don’t love, but you know that you will never start a family with someone you don’t love ) But nature doesn’t just want you to have sex but also to reproduce.

So, reproduction is must and love is something that can make you do this. And that’s why you get a reward every time you do sex. ( Feel good hormones get released ) But now we have found so many ways to not reproduce and still have sex to get those feel-good hormones. People nowadays use different things to stop pregnancy. And I don’t think that our creator has ever thought that someday we will have sex just to enjoy and not to reproduce.

So, today we have found ways to fool our brain to get those feel-good hormones but still, we don’t know how to control our emotions and the day we find this then we might can control love.

And love is just an emotion like other emotions. And emotion is something that makes us humans and differentiates us from other animals. We are not just more intelligent than other animals but also we have more emotions than any other animal.

And because of emotions sometimes we become the most stupid animal. Anyone can play with our emotions and can make us fool. That’s why you should never take any decision on the basis of emotions. Use your mind and intelligence if you want to take the right decision.

Nowadays most people get emotional about silly things and they’ve stopped using their brains. That’s why big businesses and politicians exploit people very easily. Most of the decision that we take is completely based on our emotions.

I think now you know that love is just a part of ourselves and it helps us to reproduce and have sympathy for others, now let’s talk about how you can stop yourself from loving someone.

So, if you have control over your emotions and mind then it’s just a piece of cake for you to stop loving someone. But as we know that 99% of people don’t even think or try to control their minds and emotion. So, how they can stop loving someone.

And, most people always fall in love with the one they find perfect for them. Have you ever seen anyone fall in love with someone who doesn’t like the person’s face and still loves that person?

There’s might be thousands of students in your school but still, you fell in love with someone who’s handsome or pretty, why?

Have you seen anyone who fells in love with the ugliest person in the classroom? No, because we all look for perfection. ( Now you can talk shit about this that it’s not true but deep down you also know that this is the truth ) It’s a different thing that the person you love can be ugly for others but perfect for you.

So, if you also fell in love with the perfect one then you just have to find their imperfection ( And you can find a lot because no one is perfect ) and something that you don’t like.

Most of the time we let ourselves attach mentally to people and when they leave it hurts and we just want that person in our life. But as you know that you can’t force someone to be in your life. So, you got nothing to do other than just forget that person or you can replace that person with someone else. ( When we fall in love then that person also becomes like our habit, very hard to leave or forget and you also know that it’s very difficult to leave any habit but it’s easy to replace them ) And if you can’t replace them then you just have to give your mind reasons why that person was not the perfect one.

And if you think that all this is wrong and your love is different and you truly love someone then there’s no need to stop loving that person who doesn’t love you back. Just keep loving till you die……